Navigating Toddler Milestones in The Sims 4: A Comprehensive Guide

Toddlers in The Sims 4 bring a unique and engaging gameplay experience, complete with their own set of skills, needs, and milestones. However, some players have encountered issues with the order in which these milestones are unlocked, particularly concerning the "Learn Letters" milestone. This article aims to provide a comprehensive guide to toddler milestones, addressing common issues and offering solutions to ensure a smooth and enjoyable gameplay experience.

Toddler Basics: Setting the Stage

Toddlers were neatly incorporated into the Sims 4 base game as though they were there from the start. They are fully animated, with skills and needs just like any other Sim, and thus fit neatly into the game as if they belonged in the first place! This time around, they have a couple more skills to level other than just walking, talking and potty. Special toddler furniture has been added to the game in order to care for and teach, so everything you need to raise them is present. Players who make a Toddler in Create-a-Sim (CAS) will find plenty of toddler clothes, facial features, and hairstyles to choose from. They even have special Toddler Traits!

Preparing for Your Toddler

Prepare a room for your baby to grow up in as you play the game. In order to care for your toddler correctly, you must own a toddler-sized bed for them to sleep in, a potty chair for potty training, and a high chair in which to feed them and give them drinks. You can find these by going into buy mode and, in sort by room, the children's room and clicking the blocks on the floor. It can also be found in sort by function > kids > and the toddler section. You'll find everything that you need to care for a toddler there, including toys that raise the five toddler skills. Naturally, you'll want to set up a bedroom for them to play in, though other items should go elsewhere in the home. The potty chair can go in the most convenient bathroom, while the high chair is in the kitchen. Where these are actually stored is up to you, it's just a suggestion. In case you get lost like I did, You always have access to flash cards that you may see mentioned in the game and will not find them in Buy Mode as far as I can tell - there's a kid's game table but you cannot use it with a Toddler.

Needs and Care

Toddlers have needs just like any other Sim, and failing to meet them by neglecting the kid will result in the social worker coming to take the baby. You don't want that, do you? Not after practically rioting for toddlers for two years Taking care of them means meeting those needs when they arise. Unlike babies, toddlers have all the usual needs, though social is relabeled as 'Attention'. They don't exactly need deep conversations to be happy, just some love and affection. Here's a breakdown:

Bladder: This can be 'filled' by going in the diaper for a quick fix (select the toddler, click them and 'Use Diaper'), but it will put a big drain on the Hygiene need! Naturally, you want your toddler to learn to potty and that is accomplished by taking every bladder-draining opportunity to use the potty chair for potty training.
Hunger: As the day wears on, your toddler will get hungry.
Energy: Toddlers can only sleep in toddler beds, so it's required unless you want to make your little one satisfy their tiredness by napping on a couch.
Attention: This is the toddler version of the social skill. Reading bedtime stories doesn't raise this, but other social interactions with Sims should help.
Hygiene: Changing the toddlers diaper can go a long way toward raising hygiene, but a proper bath is in order to get them truly clean. Use a tub, as showers cannot be used to bathe your toddler. With the toddler selected, picking the bath option will let you pick which adult will bathe them.

TRY to give your Toddler a full meal in the high chair, assuming they don't knock it off at only half full. Sure the descriptions of these needs make them seem very easy to care for, however Toddlers have other plans for you. They will eat up Sims' time by throwing their food away, getting enraged and crying, all of that. It's pretty realistic. Getting them through a full meal is tough, but raising skills improves their behavior so that they stop doing these things so much.

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Skills Development

Toddlers have five skills in The Sims 4: Movement, Potty, Communication, Thinking, and Imagination. All of them unlock new abilities for the growing child and change the way the AI behavior works when you are playing with full autonomy. This is nice, as you can actually see the effects of them growing more mature and learning not to throw fits and food.

The Milestone Mishap: Letters Before Numbers?

One recurring issue in The Sims 4 involves the order in which toddler milestones are unlocked, specifically, the game places Letters (unlocked at Thinking lvl 5) before Numbers (unlocked at a lower level) which can lead to toddlers not being able to complete the Numbers milestone at all.

The underlying issue is that both the Numbers and the Letters milestones reference the Shapes milestone as the prerequisite/preceding one. Very probably an omission and not as intended. This was marked as fixed following a patch. The fix was made differently than this mod and the order of the milestones is still wrong.

The Impact of Incorrect Milestone Order

This incorrect order can lead to frustrating gameplay, as toddlers may not be able to complete the Numbers milestone, hindering their overall development and potentially impacting their transition to childhood. My latest toddler has maxed all skills, but, for example, never got the option to learn letters (so couldn't achieve that milestone), and despite maxing the movement skill, never had this milestone recorded, and never received the milestone for being able to run (which she can do)…. hope this can be fixed…not using mods (haven't in months) and am on pc.

Addressing the Issue: Solutions and Workarounds

Several approaches can be taken to address the "Letters before Numbers" milestone issue:

Mods

One solution is to use mods that correct the milestone order. One such mod places the milestones in the right order: Shapes > Numbers > Letters.

Gameplay Strategies

Even without mods, there are gameplay strategies you can employ to mitigate the issue. Focus on activities that boost the Thinking skill early on, such as learning shapes with blocks. Learning shapes teaches Thinking. This skill will rise naturally while your child walks about, as though they were a jogging Sim learning fitness. You can use the 'Wander' action by clicking the toddler with them selected, which will accomplish about the same. This helps avoid you telling the toddler to walk around the house until they get it. This should go up naturally now and then, but some focused training doesn't hurt! Playing BlicBlock Baby on the tablet teaches the movement skill as well.

Reporting the Issue

If you encounter this issue, especially after game updates or new pack installations, consider reporting it on the official EA Forums. If you post or find this issue logged again on AHQ, please leave a link in the comment section and I'll post the link to the front page so more people click Me too.

Skill-Building Activities for Toddlers

To ensure your toddler progresses smoothly through their milestones, focus on activities that develop their five key skills:

Movement

The movement skill dictates how well your toddler can get around, as well as fine motor skills for basic activities. Stacking blocks will help raise the movement skill, since it requires motor control. The ideal mood for leveling movement skill is Energized.

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Potty

As the kid learns to use the potty, they won't need to use the diaper nearly as much which is a save for the parent. Potty Level 3: Mastered potty training.

Communication

Communication gradually allows the child stop babbling and start speaking Simlish, after which their ability to articulate their thoughts will greatly improve. They can babble to themselves to gain skill, talk to teddy bears and other stuffed creatures, and watch Toddler Videos on the tablet to level Communication. This is absolutely the most straightforward skill. At first, you need the parent to help - which can be accomplished easily by picking the Toddler and having them select the chair then an adult to take them. After gaining a level, they can do it by themselves.

Thinking

Learning shapes with blocks is a good way to level the Toddler's Thinking Skill. Learning shapes with an adult on the Nesting blocks should help to raise the Thinking Skill, as well as the tablet when you use the SimShape game. This is a pretty important skill, as it makes the child more reasonable and mature as they level it. Great for struggling parents!

Imagination

The doll house is a great way to learn the imagination skill, but so too are reading and playing with other toys. Reading to your Toddler is a great way to level the imagination skill, as is simply letting them play with toys and dolls. Playing Draw with Llama on the tablet will also raise Imagination. The skill simply unlocks extra interactions for your toddler.

From Toddler to Child: The Transition

In order to age up your Toddler to child manually, use a grown up to bake a cake and click it to add candles for $10. When you click a cake while the Sim is holding the Toddler, the option to 'Have X Blow Out Candles' will appear - make sure to pick the option specifically with the child's name or you'd age up the adult. Depending upon how you've done at leveling up the Toddler skills, you may get one of the following traits, along with some skill experience in an equivalent child skill. When your Toddler ages up to Child they will get bonus XP for equivalent childhood skills. Aging up requires time passing or the use of a birthday cake.

Bonus Trait: Happy Toddler - Get all Toddler Skills to level 3 to earn the Happy Toddler reward trait when the toddler grows up. The happy toddler trait increases all skill gains by 10%.*I did manage to do it without Potty at 3 but they absolutely have to know how to use it by themselves, which happens at level 2.
Bonus Trait: Top Notch Toddler - Get all Toddler Skills to max level to earn Top Notch Toddler after aging up to Child, which boosts all future skill and Career gains by 25%.

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